I know today is not a day to be angry....it's mother's day. However, I can't help but feeling so peeved right now. Someone (all names witheld) had the nerve to invite people (whom we don't really know) to J's and my wedding!!! It's OUR friggen wedding and we wanted a very small and intimate wedding with only very close family and friends!!! Who gives this person the right to invite whomever this person pleases!?!?!?!?! I mean, crap, J and I don't even KNOW these people this person invited. That's not even the point! The point is that it is OUR wedding!!!
This said person has criticized someone else for having the nerve to invite people to someone else's wedding a few years ago...yet this person is doing the exact same thing and it's okay. Go figure!!
If J and I wanted a big friggen wedding then we would have had a big friggen wedding! But we didn't! We wanted to share our special day with loved ones and people special to us....not with strangers! Maybe I'm more pissed about the fact that I feel I'm not in control of MY friggen special day. Maybe it's not that big a deal. Maybe I'm just anal and am spazzing out for nothing. But if we wanted to invite a whack load of people we don't know too well then we would have. J and I are certainly well connected enough. He's got firefighter friends from different townships, business acquaintances...and I've got friends and acquaintances from the hospitality industry and elsewhere...it wouldn't be hard to have a big ass wedding...but that's not what we wanted!! I am so upset, I feel my blood pressure rising!
I know...relax....breathe...everything will be okayyyy. I'm stll mad though! LOL and I hate being mad because I can get pretty damn fugly when I'm mad!!! Not just ugly...I get uuuuuuuuh-glay!! I mean, crap..today started out as a wonderful day and now I'm just plain 'ol ticked off!
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oh my gosh that's horrible. sorry to hear that Chris. Totally not cool. could you not tell this person how you feel and ask them not to invite more people. After all this is YOUR day and not theirs.
Chris, you are too nice. It's YOUR wedding so do things YOUR way. don't let anyone else run the show if it's not the way you want it to be. I think it is so incredibly rude of people to invite other people to someone else's wedding. That's just wrong. I mean you and John are paying for the wedding yourselves so it's up to you to decide who goes and who doesn't. That's just my two cents :) Love you! Don't worry..34 more days to go! Hang in there! Andi xxoo
That's not right. Just try to relax and know that it is better to go with the flow than to dwell in the negative energy. Everything will be as it should be and it WILL be "FRIGGIN" incredibly awesome!
Thanks Ms. Mamma :) You're absolutely right. My dad always tells me, "Don't stress over things you have no control over." I know by giving into all the negative energy, I'll just make myself miserable. Just go with the flow......